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Re: Why do we shout in anger?

நவம்பர் 18, 2009

வணக்கம் சுப்பு!
எளிய எடுத்துக்காட்டுடன் பெரிய விஷயம் விளக்கப்பட்டிருக்கின்றது. நன்றி.
தியாகத்துடன் கூடிய அன்பு தாய்க்கும் குழந்தைக்கும் உரியது. புன்னகையே கேள்விக்குப் பதிலாகவும்,பொருள் மிகுந்த விளக்கமாகவும் அமைகிறது.
வெ.சுப்பிரமணியன் ஓம்.

On Wed, Nov 18, 2009 at 5:59 PM, Vanakkam Subbu <> wrote:

This one is a lovely mail and you should read it? A good one too??..I hope you can relate to it.

A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’

‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint.’ Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other.

The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love?

They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’

The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.

Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not
say words that distance each other


Great Men are not great by themselves, but also makes others great. – M Lakshmanan, ITO

Vanakkam Subbu

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